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“There are so many people who think they are something completely different than they are, that when we come across someone who knows himself as he is, we feel like kissing him on the forehead to congratulate him!”

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Mehmet Murat Ildan
Mehmet Murat Ildan

Mehmet Murat Ildan is a renowned Turkish writer born on May 16, 1965. His works span various literary forms including novels, essays, and poetry, and have gained widespread popularity among readers. more

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