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“I’m not going to be like my mother. You’re maniacs. You’re mad." “Yes,” said Kate. “I know it. And so you won’t be. The best of luck to you. And what are you going to be instead?”

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The Summer Before the Dark

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Doris Lessing
Doris Lessing

Doris Lessing was a British novelist known for her profound psychological insights and critical exploration of social and political issues. Her works covered a wide range of themes from personal experiences to global concerns, including colonialism, gender roles, and women's liberation. Lessing's writing style is unique and vivid, and she has had a significant impact on postcolonial and feminist literature. more

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