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Mean Baby: A Memoir of Growing Up

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Selma Blair
Selma Blair

Selma Blair, born on June 23, 1972, is an American actress known for her remarkable performances in films and television. She rose to fame with her role in 'American Beauty' and 'Big Hero 6'. Blair's acting career began in her childhood, and she has since established herself as a prominent actress. Her performances are widely appreciated by audiences and have earned her numerous accolades. more

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“Well,” she said. “I was happy for fiffty-five years. That’s more than most people get. Now there’s the clan to look after, like Raphael would’ve wanted. The night we knew he was gone, and every night since, I watch my vampires in the home he guarded. I watch the mundanes in the streets he loved. Every one of them looks like a child I should help, a possibility for a future I wasn’t able to imagine. Every one of them seems precious, worth defending, worth the world. Every one of them is Raphael.”