“I wanted each different Chelsea to be able to navigate her own world without having to also speak to a larger narrative.” Quote by Chelsea Martin
“When I was going through the stuff with my dad and thinking about terms like restraining order and domestic violence, I was really just searching for a way to define what I was going through. I didn't really understand what it meant to disown a parent or not want to have a parent in your life. Even the word parent was confusing to me because my father came into my life so late in my teen years.” ThinkingFatherParentTermViolenceDadMy DadConfusingDomestic Violence Author:Chelsea Martin
“I think I've been able to express some of the more complicated feelings I had.” ThinkingFeelingsComplicated Author:Chelsea Martin
“The thing about writing or making art is that I'm not thinking about that stuff while I'm doing it. Like the driver's ed kid, in retrospect I see that that was meaningful, and I felt close to him in that way, but at the time I just thought it was fun to draw, and that's all it was. I think that's what's weird about life and about making art. You have to talk about it later. I guess I should be prepared to talk about it now. That is why I'm here. But again, pass.” ThinkingWritingArtKidsFunArt IsMeaningfulBe Prepared Author:Chelsea Martin
“It's uncomfortable to just say the first thing that pops into your head, but you have to when you're speaking in front of people. A lot of times I'll say something I don't even believe. I've never actually used "pass" before.” PeopleBelieveUncomfortable Author:Chelsea Martin
“The last time I was asked that, I said "A Year Without Spoons." Normally you get asked the same questions over and over, so it feels boring to say the same thing. But then I was like, I don't even know another essay I like. They're all good.” BoringLast TimeEssays Author:Chelsea Martin
“That was an instance where I was given a word to define my confusing experience, and I'm just like, "nah."” Confusing Author:Chelsea Martin
“In fiction you can make up everything to create the feeling. You can manufacture a story with whatever tools you want. With nonfiction you have to rely on what actually happened to describe what you're feeling. That's hard. You have to know what will feed into the emotion you're trying to convey. And that's hard because you don't necessarily know what causes your emotions.” TryingFeelingsEmotionRely Author:Chelsea Martin
“Clearly people should meet an acceptable threshold of appropriateness! But I think that for many women in the public eye, it just seems that the burden is so heavy. We're doing a job that is not a celebrity job or an entertainment or fashion job.... In a professional setting, treat us as professionals.... And it takes a lot of time. I've often laughed with my male colleagues, like, "What did you do? You took a shower, you combed your hair, you put your clothes on. I couldn't do that."” PeopleThinkingEyeFashionBurden Author:Hillary Clinton
“I don't in any way underestimate the difficulties, because it's only gotten harder. But I do think you just have to go into politics with the attitude that you're going to speak clearly and authentically about what you see the country needs...and seek out whatever possible partners you can, even in the other party. I've looked at successful presidents going back. Some of our most successful governed through periods when their party was in charge, and when the other party was in charge. There's no magic formula.” ThinkingCountrySpeakPresidentPartyAttitudeSuccessfulMagicDifficultyUnderestimate Author:Hillary Clinton
“You cannot be afraid to present yourself. And sometimes that takes practice. If you're not comfortable with public speaking - and nobody starts out comfortable, you have to learn how to be comfortable - practice. I cannot overstate the importance of practicing. Get some close friends or family members to help evaluate you, or somebody at work that you trust.” SometimesHelpingImportancePublic SpeakingClose Friends Author:Hillary Clinton