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“As Africans, we need to support each other, but we cannot support each other in doing wrong or bad things. We cannot support each other in committing crimes and breaking the law. We need to support each other in doing what is right. We should support each other's businesses, talents, skills, investments, and ideas. We should also offer each other moral support”

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“People who judge you will usually never support you. They never put their money where their mouth is. They just like seeing you being miserable. They want you to feel bad which makes them feel good about themselves. Especially if you do something they can never try or are afraid to pull off. When you have something, they can never acquire. They can just wish and dream about it.”

“To lovers out there... It is so sad that people would stage drama in their relationships. They would start a fight for no reason. So, they can be relevant on social media. They want to look the same as other couples who are having bad times in relationships. People who are going through a lot, suffering and being abused in relationships. Being a victim pays off these days and it gives you all the attention, exposure, platform, and sympathy in the world. So many people are sad fishing to gain relevancy, boost or start their career, get publicity, promote their work or themselves, get money for reactions or engagement, or get revenge.”

“To lovers out there …. Life has proven that if you want to be good at something, you must practice. You must train yourself to do what you want to do. Most of the time, you struggle, and you don’t get it right, but if you keep on practicing, eventually, you get it right. This is the problem with a lot of marriages or relationships. People have been single forever. Not only are they single, but they stay alone and forever distancing themselves from other people. They never had partners, and some don’t even have friends. They had never tried living with someone. They don’t know how to please their partners. How to put their partner’s needs first. How to sacrifice for someone, how to become selfless or supportive. How to be humble, submissive, romantic. How to communicate or apologize. How to give pleasure or how to care. Sometimes they marry at a late age when their bodies don’t allow certain things. Certain activities. Certain talks. They don’t have the energy or excitement. The body is no longer fresh. They think of themselves as perfect because they have preserved themselves, but that makes their marriage and relationship fail because they have never practiced. They become difficult to deal with in a relationship or marriage because of their theory about love and most of their thinking is unrealistic or practical.”

“To lovers out there …. We often feel sad, hurt, and complain about not finding love or a partner. But when we finally meet someone good, we end up playing them, only to realize we were playing ourselves. We lose someone who truly loves us, someone who cares deeply, who would do anything for us even when they have nothing. Someone willing to sacrifice for us, help us grow into better people, and bring us true happiness, joy, love, and peace of mind. Someone who could have transformed our lives. But because we’re addicted to pain, chaos, suffering, and sadness, we keep choosing the wrong partners over the right ones.”

“To lovers out there .. Some partners continuously test their significant others in the relationship. While those being tested often pass with flying colors, the ones initiating these tests ultimately fail to be the right partners themselves. Before testing your partner, ensure you are the right partner for them first.”

“To all the lovers out there… When we were in school, we were told not to date, that we would find better partners in university. Then, in university, we were told to wait until we got to the workplace. Now that we are working, we think we will find the right partners in marriage. But the truth is. we are not good at dating. We are inexperienced. We might have no children, few or no exes, but we lack relationship experience. We give up easily. We are difficult to deal with. We have high expectations, unrealistic standards, and a sense of entitlement. We struggle to compromise or tolerate others. We think we are always right. We are selfish, inconsiderate, and emotionally unavailable. That is why many of us end up lonely , with only our academics and careers to show. We have succeeded in education, but we have failed in relationships. Even though we may be successful in life, we have failed to love others. Our lives may seem perfect, but we are unlovable, not because we are incapable, but because we never tried, never gained the experience or learned the lessons. And now, it feels too late. We are too old to learn or to set in our ways. When we do try dating, we often end up with the worst partners, because our choices are driven by desperation, and our criteria are unrealistic.”

“To lovers out there ... Some people are comfortable dating or being with dangerous individuals, rapists, molesters, abusive partners, criminals, or even killers. They don’t care about what these people do to others or how they live their lives. They only start to see them as bad or wrong once they are no longer benefiting.”

“To lovers out there … Do not envy others without knowing what they are truly doing or how they are doing it. Many couples who take international trips, buy each other houses and cars, or host lavish events may not be doing so through honest means. Often, these displays of wealth are funded by money laundering or other illicit activities. Some travel abroad under the guise of a vacation or baecation, but are actually involved in drug trafficking, prostitution, human trafficking, or other crimes. Others throw extravagant celebrations, birthdays, anniversaries, weddings, and exchange expensive gifts as a way to clean dirty money.”