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“With still, underneath, the old respectable-girl-versus-slut thing. It’s OK to fuck around if you’re a feminist but it’s also not OK to fuck around because most guys aren’t feminists and won’t respect you and won’t call you again if you fuck around.”

Quote by David Foster Wallace

Book:Brief Interviews With Hideous Men
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Brief Interviews With Hideous Men

This book is a series of interviews conducted by a male author with a diverse group of people, each with their own unique perspectives and experiences. The interviews delve into complex and thought-provoking topics, offering a glimpse into the lives and minds of the subjects. more

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David Foster Wallace
David Foster Wallace

American novelist known for his unique literary style and profound insights into modern life. His works include 'Infinite Jest' and 'The Broom of the System'. more

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