“shadow & sugar… you are allowed to be a many-layered thing… to have texture and shades. to be kissed by the sunlight and bitten by the moon and to feel all the different ways that you feel, all the raw and tender mess of it all. to let all of that shadow and sugar be in you and the pretty and dirty and beautiful and wild run through you and spill out of you everywhere, all at once… to just let yourself be a soft and wild thing.”