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“I'm interested is the oblique as a concept deeply connected to human lived experience, not separate from it. I was listening to an interview with film director Stephen Frears on NPR the other day and he said, "People's lives are never what you think they are," or something like that. Human lives are oblique. It makes sense to me that attending to them in language is as well.”

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Dawn Lundy Martin

Dawn Lundy Martin is an American writer known for her works that explore themes of identity, race, and gender. Her distinctive writing style has earned her a wide readership. more

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