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“You’ve always been my independent one. You hold in so much. You aren’t who anyone decides you are. You aren’t how anyone treats you. You have to find peace in that. It’s not easy, but you do.”

Book:Not the Girls You're Looking For

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“...it's like we start these trajectories when we're twelve, or worse, the trajectories are started for us, and then we're expected to stay on that trajectory for the rest of our lives? ... I want a new trajectory. Everything---everyone---in my life is stagnant...It's like my life is this old sweater. And I've outgrown it (51)”

Growing Up

Book:The Strange Fascinations of Noah Hypnotik

Source: The Strange Fascinations of Noah Hypnotik

“After the sureties of youth there sets in a period of intense and intolerable complexity.”

Growing Up

Book:The Beautiful and Damned

Source: The Beautiful and Damned

“The values are changing utterly with each lesion of vitality; it has begun to appear that we can learn nothing from the past with which to face the future – so we cease to be impulsive, convincible men, interested in what is ethically true by fine margins, we substitute rules of conduct for ideas of integrity, we value safety above romance, we become, quite unconsciously, pragmatic.”

Values Growing Up Maturity Vitality

Book:The Beautiful and Damned

Source: The Beautiful and Damned

“Even if you don't want to count the years, the years count you.”

Years Age Growth Growing Up Aging

Book:Jesus

Source: Jesus

“You never really grow up. It's a trick; everybody is wandering around just as lost as a person ahead and the person behind. We are all winging it. You are always waiting for somebody to tell you if you're doing it right but you never know.”

Growing Up Young Adult Contemporary Big Bones Laura Dockrill

Book:Big Bones

Source: Big Bones

“What I didn't know until right this very minute was how growing up happens in little surges. We grow up in moments—when we encounter such stupidities in ourselves that our only choice is to grow past them or into them.”

Growing Up

Book:Behold the Bones

Source: Behold the Bones

“If we use child in a good sense (it has also legitimately a bad one) we must not allow that to push us into the sentimentality of only using adult or grown-up in a bad sense (it has also legitimately a good one). The process of growing older is not necessarily allied to growing wickeder, though the two do often happen together. Children are meant to grow up, and not to become Peter Pans. Not to lose innocence and wonder; but to proceed on the appointed journey: that journey upon which it is certainly not better to travel hopefully than to arrive, though we must travel hopefully if we are to arrive.”

Children Growing Up Childhood Adults Innocence Life Experience Adulthood Growing Older Maturation

Book:The Monsters and the Critics and Other Essays

Source: The Monsters and the Critics and Other Essays

“We knew it was only a moment. Our days of cool were numbered. Even when we were in it, right now was already gone. We didn’t know what it would be. Maybe a man. A baby. A death. What we knew was that soon, we’d pass thirty and get wrapped up in dull, adult things with no time or energy leftover to work at being cool. Just like that. Whoosh. Zoom. It’s over, and we’re here. From past to present.”

Life Change Growing Up Youth Aging Nostalgia Maturity Growing Old Time Passing Growing Older

Book:You Don't See Any of This

Source: You Don't See Any of This

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