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“In fact I no longer value this kind of memento. I no longer want reminders of what was, what got broken, what got lost, what got wasted. There was a period, a long period, dating from my childhood until quite recently, when I thought I did. A period during which I believed that I could keep people fully present, keep them with me, by preserving their mementos, their "things," their totems.”

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Book:Blue Nights (Enhanced Edition)
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Blue Nights (Enhanced Edition)

In this revised and expanded edition, the author delves into the complexities of grief and the enduring bond between parent and child. The narrative is a deeply personal reflection on the loss of a loved one, intertwining personal anecdotes with broader themes of mortality and memory. more

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Joan Didion
Joan Didion

Joan Didion is an American author born on December 5, 1934. Known for her distinctive narrative style and profound insights into modern life, her works have gained recognition for their unique perspective and deep understanding of the complexities of contemporary society. more

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