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“As a good gardener prepares the soil, so a wise leader creates an environment that promotes community. ... community involves a common place, a common time, and a common purpose. Just getting people in the same place at the same time does not produce a team. Community requires a common vision.”

Quote by Diane Dreher

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Diane Dreher is an author recognized for her contributions to the self-help and personal development genre. Born in 1946, she has authored several influential books that delve into the intricacies of human behavior and offer guidance for personal growth. more

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