“I think Dogen can be a very good introduction for people who want to meditate in whatever way, whether it's yoga, qigong, or Tibetan. It can help widen and deepen anyone's meditation experience.” PeopleThinkingWayWantHelpingMeditationYogaVery GoodIntroductionTibetanQigong Author:Kazuaki Tanahashi
“In Dogen's writing, the practical instruction, philosophy and poetry are together in one voice. People hear about his poetry, go to his work, and expect to find poetry, or they hear about his philosophy and expect to find philosophy. They look just for practical instruction and find poetry and philosophy. They can't make out the complexity of his writing, become frustrated and let him go.” PeopleWritingLooksPhilosophyTogetherVoicePracticalsComplexityInstructionFrustratedMake OutLet Him Go Author:Kazuaki Tanahashi
“It occurs to me that there's been a relatively recent tendency in the media to see prostitutes as victims and johns as exploiters. I don't think most prostitutes see themselves as victims or see their clients as exploiters, but that way of seeing prostitutes and johns is pretty common now outside of sex-work circles, and it's more shameful to be the exploiter than the exploited.” ThinkingWaySexCommonSeeingMediaVictimCirclesTendenciesClientsShamefulSex Work Author:Chester Brown
“The best unpaid sex, where you and the woman are really into each other, and there's a lot of really intense passion, and things are really hot between you...I've never had that kind of sex when I was paying for it. The best unpaid sex is going to be, I think, more passionate and more hot than the best paid sex.” ThinkingKindPassionSexPaidHotPassionateIntense Author:Chester Brown
“The best paid sex can still be really great and really intense, but, you know, without the emotional passion there, it's not going to be quite at the same level as the best unpaid sex.” KnowsStillsPassionSexLevelsEmotionalPaidIntenseReally Great Author:Chester Brown
“I don't date civilians. I don't even try. I'm totally out of the game of dating or trying to get a girlfriend or anything like that.” TryingGamesDatingGirlfriendCivilians Author:Chester Brown
“I'm not looking to get married or anything like that. I'm just a john now. I'm going to be paying for sex for the rest of my life.” SexMarried Author:Chester Brown
“After my last girlfriend broke up with me, I looked at how our relationship had gone and how my previous relationships had gone, and even though those girlfriends had all been very nice women, I realized that I did not like being a boyfriend. I didn't like that role, so I thought I had to figure out some other way to, you know, have sex. And I much prefer paying for sex to being a boyfriend.” KnowsWayLastsSexRolesGoneNiceFiguresI RealizedBrokeGirlfriendOur RelationshipVery NiceBroke Up Author:Chester Brown
“When you're in a relationship, the dynamic seems to change over time. I only had two long-term girlfriends, but with both of them, as time went on, the sex tapered off in terms of frequency. We had sex less and less often. And talking with friends or whatever, hearing other people's stories, that seems to be the case with a lot of romantic relationships.” PeopleLongTwoStoriesSeemsSexTermTalkingCasesHearingLong TermGirlfriendFrequencyRomantic RelationshipChanges Over Time Author:Chester Brown