“Europe, which gave us the idea of same-sex marriage, is a dying society, with birthrates 50 percent below replacement.” IdeasSexDyingPercentEuropeReplacements Author:Maggie Gallagher
“Defendants have not explained how allowing same-sex marriage between two consenting adults will at all prevent heterosexual spouses from caring for their biological children.” ChildrenTwoSexAdultsCaringAllowingSpouseMarriage Equality Author:Kristine G. Baker
“Of course the welfare of our children is a legitimate state interest. However, limiting marriage to opposite-sex couples fails to further this interest. Instead, needlessly stigmatizing and humiliating children who are being raised by the loving couples targeted by Virginia's Marriage Laws betrays that interest. E. S.-T. [the 15-year-old daughter of two of the plaintiffs], like the thousands of children being raised by same-sex couples, is needlessly deprived of the protection, the stability, the recognition and the legitimacy that marriage conveys.” YearsChildrenTwoStatesLawCoursesSexInterestFailingCoupleDaughterOppositesOur ChildrenRaisedProtectionRecognitionWelfareStabilityBetrayDeprivedVirginiaHumiliatingLegitimacyMarriage Equality Author:Arenda L. Wright Allen
“Although cohabitating same-sex couples are prohibited from jointly adopting children under Utah law as a result of the same-sex marriage ban, the record shows that nearly 3,000 Utah children are being raised by same-sex couples. Thus childrearing, a liberty closely related to the right to marry, is one exercised by same-sex and opposite-sex couples alike, as well as by single individuals.” WellsChildrenShowsLawIndividualSexResultsLibertyRecordsCoupleOppositesRaisedRelatedBansAdoptingUtahMarriage Equality Author:Carlos F. Lucero
“To allow same-sex couples to adopt children and then to label their families as second-class because the adoptive parents are of the same sex is cruel as well as unconstitutional. Classifying some families, and especially their children, as of lesser value should be repugnant to all those in this nation who profess to believe in "family values."” ShouldBelieveWellsChildrenValuesNationsSexParentClassCoupleLabelsFamily ValuesMarriage EqualityUnconstitutionalClassifyingAdoptive Parents Author:Stephen Reinhardt
“Defendants' essential contention is that bans on same-sex marriage promote the welfare of children, by encouraging good parenting in stable opposite-sex families.... Defendants have presented no evidence of any such effect. Indeed, they cannot even explain the manner in which, as they predict, children of opposite-sex couples will be harmed. Their other contentions are equally without merit.” ChildrenSexEffectsCoupleEssentialsEvidenceOppositesWelfareMeritStableBansContentionMarriage EqualityGood ParentGood Parenting Author:Stephen Reinhardt
“The only rationale that the states put forth with any conviction-that same-sex couples and their children don't need marriage because same-sex couples can't produce children, intended or unintended-is so full of holes that it cannot be taken seriously.” NeedsChildrenStatesSexTakenProduceCoupleConvictionHolesMarriage EqualityRationale Author:Richard Posner
“Heterosexuals get drunk and pregnant, producing unwanted children; their reward is to be allowed to marry. Homosexual couples do not produce unwanted children; their reward is to be denied the right to marry. Go figure.” ChildrenFiguresProduceCoupleRewardsDrunkDeniedPregnantHomosexualUnwantedMarriage Equality Author:Richard Posner
“...We're people and we're different, all of us. And we should be using our differences to bring ourselves closer together. You know? Not be afraid of something that we don't know. ... It's unfortunate that things take a while to progress like this, but it was a great, great victory for equality. I'm proud New York has the balls to stand up for what's right.” PeopleKnowsShouldDifferentTogetherDifferencesProgressNew YorkProudVictoryBallsUnfortunateMarriage EqualityGreat Victory Author:Justin Timberlake
“Gay and lesbian relationships operate on essentially the same principles as heterosexual relationships” PrinciplesGayMarriage Equality Author:John M. Gottman