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“It was a lesson most people learned much earlier; that even friendship could have an undisclosed shelf life. That loyalty and affection, so consuming and powerful, could dissipate like fog.”

Quote by Jennifer Haigh

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Jennifer Haigh
Jennifer Haigh

Jennifer Haigh, born in 1968, is an accomplished American novelist known for her insightful exploration of family, society, and moral issues. Her works are characterized by their delicate touch and profound insight. Her notable novels include 'The Book of Emma Comfort' and 'Heat and Light'. more

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