“I think you can't have this discussion and you can't have a discussion about feminism and the consciousness of the world without having a discussion about what has happened to men lately. They're holding the other side of the bag.” ThinkingMenWorldSidesConsciousnessHappenedFeminismDiscussionBags Author:Amanda Palmer
“While we're over here blocked up in our departments and locked up in our own judgments and dealing with our own crazy problems, they're over there dealing with equivalent problems. One of the things that I am so frightened by lately is that men are having just as difficult a time striking a balance as we are.” MenProblemDifficultCrazyBalanceJudgmentDepartmentFrightenedLockedBlockedLocked Up Author:Amanda Palmer
“There was a dance that everyone was doing that was heavily skewed with the power in one direction, but the dance was basically working, and then the dance got really disrupted with the first wave of feminism, and nobody found their footing yet - not the guys, not the women.” FirstsGuyFoundFeminismWaveOne Direction Author:Amanda Palmer
“Men find powerful women so threatening, and finding a partner was starting to look laughable, because I would be really attracted to guys and they would just be so threatened and I didn't like feeling threatening, I didn't want to feel threatened, I didn't want to feel like I was towering over anybody.” MenWantFeelsLooksFeelingsWould BeGuyPowerfulFindingsStartingPartnersThreatenedThreateningPowerful WomenLaughable Author:Amanda Palmer
“I wanted to feel like I could extend someone else's joy and not crush it, and that is the giant paradox nowadays of being a powerful woman: you want to live in a space of compassion and helpfulness and joy and expression, and the world is standing there, pointing the finger at you and telling you that you're greedy and domineering and attention-grabbing, and all you can do is shrug and just say, "Hopefully, someone out there understands and isn't misinterpreting."” WorldWantFeelsWantedJoyCan DoSpacePowerfulAttentionCompassionExpressionStandingFingersHopefullyGiantsCrushParadoxGreedyPointingPowerful WomenStanding ThereGrabbingHelpfulnessPointing Fingers Author:Amanda Palmer
“The key is to just focus on the spots where the love is real, because you can just drive yourself crazy focusing on the negativity, focusing on the relationships that are irreparable and just aren't going to work, trying to convince the haters that you are indeed lovable. So much of that is wasted energy.” TryingRealEnergyLove IsFocusCrazyKeysSpotsConvinceNegativityGoing To WorkLovableIrreparable Author:Amanda Palmer
“What I have found is, so much of that is like a Chinese finger trap: the more you play to the dark, the more you will get trapped in the dark, and if you just play to the light and focus on the people that don't misunderstand you and focus on the audience that does celebrate you and focus on the people who aren't trying to tear you down, all that other stuff eventually erases itself because it has nothing to feed on.” PeopleIfsTryingDoePlayLightFoundStuffDarkAudienceFocusTearsFingersCelebrateChineseTrappedTrapsErase Author:Amanda Palmer
“Our nature is to desperately want to believe and to take what we believe is the quickest path there even against our better judgment.” WantBelievePathJudgment Author:Amanda Palmer
“Everyone I know shares toothbrushes. Everyone I know sleeps on each other's floor. Everyone I know uses what they've got and shares what they've got.” KnowsUseSleepShareToothbrushes Author:Amanda Palmer