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“It's terrifying to think about all things that were awful for you. But for me, sharing all of them was so satisfying, because people read them and get to go, "Oh, okay, I don't have to feel so shitty about that," or maybe even, "Why was I feeling so shitty about that? I should own that and learn from that." Those are the sorts of stories I want to tell.”

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Kelly Oxford
Kelly Oxford

Kelly Oxford, born in 1977, is an accomplished American author known for her humorous and introspective writing. Her works focus on personal experiences, social phenomena, and women's issues, gaining popularity across various platforms including The New York Times and The New Yorker. more

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