“you're much better off to confront your fears head on than you are to wait and let them find you” Quote by Jordan B. Peterson
“what happens if you're in a relationship with someone and you trust them, then you make certain assumptions about the past, and you make certain assumptions about the present, and you make certain assumptions about the future. And everything's stable, so you're standing on solid ground. And the chaos, it's like you're standing on thin ice. The chaos is hidden. The shark beneath the waves isn't there. You're safe, you're in the lifeboat. But then if the person betrays you — like if you're in an intimate relationship and the person has an affair and you find out about it — then you think, one moment you're one in one place, right? You're where everything is secure because you've predicated your perception of the world on the axiom of trust, and the next second — really, the next second — you're in a completely different place. And not only is that place different right now, the place you were years ago is different, and the place you're going to be in the future years hence is different. And so, all of that certainty that strange certainty that you inhabit can collapse into incredible complexity. And you say, well if someone betrays you, you think: "Okay, who were you? Because you weren't who I thought you were. And I thought I knew you. But I didn't know you at all. And I never knew you, and so all the things we did together, those weren't the things that I thought were happening. Something else was happening! And you're someone else. That means I'm someone else because I thought I knew what was going on, and clearly I don't. I'm some sort of blind sucker, or the victim of a psychopath or someone who's so naive that they can barely live. And I don't understand anything about human beings, and I don't understand anything about myself, and I have no idea where I am now. I thought I was at home, but I'm not. I'm in a house and it's full of strangers. I don't know what I'm going to do tomorrow, or next week, or next year.” YoutubeBiblical SeriesHdrlq7dpiws Author:Jordan B. Peterson
“If you hold out your hand than you're inviting the best part of that person to step forward and that won't happen unless you take that initial step and that's courage, not naivety. So to trust someone once your eyes are open that's an act of courage and that opens up the world.” YoutubeBiblical Series3y6bcqt85pc Author:Jordan B. Peterson
“To share means properly to initiate the process of trade. A child who can't share who can't trade can't have any friends because having friends is a from of trade.” YoutubeBiblical SeriesYup40gwht0 Author:Jordan B. Peterson
“They would grow old together measuring time by the life spans of a succession of speckled bird dogs.” AgeTime Book:Cold Mountain: A Novel Source: Cold Mountain: A Novel
“He said he had parents who were desperate anti-social alcoholic addicted friendless and that they didn't want him to leave their home. He was the only relationship they had and he asked what he should do and I told him that he should leave.” YoutubeBiblical SeriesYup40gwht0 Author:Jordan B. Peterson
“we don't experience any positive emotion unless we have an aim, and we can see ourselves progressing toward that aim” YoutubeBiblical SeriesF Wwbgo6a2w Author:Jordan B. Peterson
“It's one of the two major fears of people. 'Cause one is social humiliation. And the other is something like mortality and death.” YoutubeBiblical SeriesHdrlq7dpiws Author:Jordan B. Peterson
“the circuits that engage you — for example when you're having an argument about something fundamental with someone that you love. So you're trying to structure the world around you, jointly, to create a habitable space that you both can exist within. You're using the same circuits — the abstracted version — that our archaic ancestors would have used when they went out into the unknown itself to encounter beasts and predators and geographical unknowns.” YoutubeBiblical SeriesHdrlq7dpiws Author:Jordan B. Peterson
“the notion that it was good, well even if you don't believe that because maybe it's not as good as it could be. I would say it's incumbent on you as someone who participates in the process of furthering creation to act as if it could be good at least and to further that with all of your efforts. Partly because what the hell else do you have to do that could possible be better than that, that could possible justify your existence more than that?” YoutubeBiblical SeriesHdrlq7dpiws Author:Jordan B. Peterson
“We fall for the feeling, not the face, and wonder why it fades.” Emotional TruthsLove And IllusionsLove ReflectionsFleeting Feelings Author:Monika Ajay Kaul