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“To see your mother as a baby, that is what it's like, and therefore heartbreaking and wretched, and therefore also cleansing in some crooked way, the self wiped clean of static, pared down to its essentials, the human core that bore you, which was borne.”

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Book:The End of the Point
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The End of the Point

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Elizabeth Graver
Elizabeth Graver

Elizabeth Graver is an American writer born on July 2, 1964. Her works are known for their delicate emotional descriptions and profound thematic explorations, mainly involving family, identity, and memory. more

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