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“Husbands who have been deceived and lied to and made to look fools have for centuries fled to South America, never to return. It’s a tradition that goes back a long way.”

Quote by Thomas Bernhard

Book:Concrete
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Concrete

This book delves into the history, properties, and applications of concrete, examining its significance in the construction of buildings and cities. more

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Thomas Bernhard
Thomas Bernhard

Thomas Bernhard, born on February 9, 1931 and died on February 12, 1989, was an influential Austrian novelist. His works are renowned for their unique style and profound criticism of social reality. more

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