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“Be yourself!’ said Gro. ‘No one will hear any of you otherwise, still less trust you. That’s the most important thing of all. If you’re not yourself you just can’t sustain it in the long term.”

Quote by Asne Seierstad

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Asne Seierstad

Asne Seierstad is a prominent Norwegian freelance writer recognized for her contributions to journalism and literature. Born on February 10, 1970, she has made a significant impact through her investigative reporting and narrative non-fiction, often focusing on human rights issues and the lives of ordinary people in conflict zones. more

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