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“When people ask 'how do I know if I'm being too easy or hard on myself?' or 'how hard should I be on myself?' I answer, 'hard enough to motivate you to do something, and not so hard that it makes you want to bury your head in your pillow and give up.' So now I add, to the question 'how much should the director in the back of my head be side-coaching what I'm saying and doing?': enough to make you self-aware (and aware of others, and receptive and responsive to them) and not so much as to make you self-conscious. No judgement.” — Shellen Lubin
When people ask 'how do I know if I'm being too easy or hard
on myself?' or
'how hard should I be on myself?'
I answer,
'hard enough to motivate you to do something,
and not so hard that it makes you want to
bury your head in your pillow
and give up.'
So now I add, to the question
'how much should the director in the back of my head
be side-coaching what I'm saying and doing?':
enough to make you self-aware (and aware of others,
and receptive and responsive to them)
and not so much as to make you self-conscious.
No judgement.