“it’s one of the darkest feelings i’ve ever known… unworthy. and maybe i want to learn to start questioning it when i feel it. like… is it always even mine? because if it's from someone else… someone else's unkindness, or judgment, or their own unworthiness they’re projecting… then i want to learn to say no. i think maybe my own battles would get a little easier to face if i wasn't also fighting the ones that aren't even mine.”