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“To be “unmanly” is, of course, within our gender binary system, to be feminine, and here lies the essence of gender socialization for males: they need, at all times, to distance themselves as much as possible from anything constructed by the culture as feminine. The feminine hence becomes feared—and that which we fear, we also learn to despise.”

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Pornland: How Porn Has Hijacked Our Sexuality

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Gail Dines
Gail Dines

Gail Dines is an American author and scholar specializing in gender, media, and cultural studies. Born in 1958, she is known for her research on gender violence and consumer culture. more

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