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“Kako u svoju odraslost nosimo premalo od onog što je u nama najbolje! Naša sadašnja ostvarivost probijanja određenih granica, kako na fizičkom, tako i na osjećajnom planu ni po čem se ne može mjeriti s vrijednošću načina na koji smo to činili i postizali kad smo bili djeca.”

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