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“Prayer is such an intimate act, a place of vulnerability. It is, hopefully, when we are our least guarded, our most honest selves. And this is good, of course; this is as it ought to be. When we come to God, we certainly want to come as honestly and openly as we can; we want to be our truest selves before him. Prayer lets us be in a place of need.”

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Love and War: Finding the Marriage You've Dreamed Of

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John Eldredge
John Eldredge

John Eldredge is an American author known for his Christian spiritual works. His writings delve into the topics of male identity and spiritual growth, resonating with a wide audience. more

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