“The realm of sexual pleasure is also the realm of the psyche. To love or be loved, to touch, be touched, feel pleasure, passion, ecstasy, to surrender and release engages every human faculty, not sensual adroitness alone but intelligence of every kind. As well as being willing to give pleasure, a good lover must be sensitive and aware, registering what kind of touch, for instance, on which part of the body arouses desire, knowing which mood calls for a robust approach, which moment requires gentleness, able to laugh or tease while at the same time probing both the mind and body of the loved one for gateways to greater feeling. The desire to give pleasure is, however, not the only motive. The deepest ardor of the lover is to know the beloved: to test, feel, see, taste, smell, witness every response, every shade of sensation.”
Quote by Susan Griffin
Work
The Book of the Courtesans: A Catalogue of Their Virtues is a scholarly work that delves into the lives of courtesans, examining their cultural significance and the virtues they were known for. The book provides an extensive collection of biographies and descriptions of these women, highlighting their influence on art, literature, and society during their time. more
Author
Susan Griffin is an influential American author, born on January 26, 1943. Her works cover a range of themes including feminism, history, literature, and ethics. Griffin is known for her profound critical thinking and sharp insights into social issues. more
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