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“It's hard to understand how we can harbor negative feelings toward someone we love when the two appear to sit at such competing ends of the spectrum. But negative emotion does, which is why even daughters of abusive mothers need to mourn the loss.”

Quote by Hope Edelman

Work

Motherless Daughters: The Legacy of Loss

This book examines the unique and often overlooked grief experienced by daughters who have lost their mothers, whether through death, abandonment, or other forms of separation. It delves into how such a loss shapes a woman's identity, relationships, and sense of self across different stages of life. Drawing from extensive interviews and psychological research, the author addresses topics such as the search for maternal guidance, the impact on romantic partnerships and motherhood, and the process of healing. The work is recognized as a seminal resource on the subject, offering validation and insight for those navigating this specific form of bereavement. more

Author

Hope Edelman
Hope Edelman

Hope Edelman is an American author born on June 17, 1964. Her works primarily focus on women's issues, particularly discussions about motherhood and feminine identity. Edelman is known for her in-depth research and moving narratives, with her books having a wide-reaching impact among women. more

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