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The ethical slut: a guide to infinite sexual possibilities

This book serves as a comprehensive guide for individuals interested in exploring open relationships and polyamory, emphasizing the importance of ethical practices and communication in such arrangements. more

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Dossie Easton
Dossie Easton

Dossie Easton is a British author born on February 26, 1944. Her works span a variety of genres, including novels, poetry, and drama. more

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