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“Children who feel that they are unloved can believe that there must be something very wrong about them which makes them unacceptable. The stinging sense of being not right causes them confusion and hurt, but they do not give up the desire for love and acceptance. They despair of it, certainly. They pine for it and perhaps fear it. But their pursuit of love and acceptance will dovetail with an attempt to change themselves into someone the child himself can accept.”

Quote by Susie Orbach

Book:Bodies

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Bodies

This book serves as a thorough reference for understanding the intricate workings of the human body, covering topics such as the skeletal, muscular, nervous, and cardiovascular systems, among others. It includes detailed diagrams and descriptions to aid in visual comprehension and learning. more

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Susie Orbach
Susie Orbach

Susie Orbach is a British psychotherapist and author renowned for her profound insights into diet culture, body image, and gender issues. Her book 'Fat is a Feminist Issue' sparked widespread discussion in the 1980s, profoundly impacting contemporary diet culture. more

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