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Delia Ephron
Delia Ephron

Delia Ephron is an American author known for her humorous and emotionally rich novels and screenplays. Her works often explore love, family, and human relationships. Born on July 12, 1944, Ephron is the daughter of the renowned playwright Neil Simon. more

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