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“Mom [...] who smiled the weak smile of a trapped drudge as we slid in past her, heading for the phone, filled with surliness and contempt and the resolve to never be like her.”

Quote by Margaret Atwood

Book:The Tent
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The Tent

The Tent is a gripping narrative that delves into the challenges of human existence in a desolate environment, focusing on the resilience and relationships of its characters. more

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Margaret Atwood
Margaret Atwood

Margaret Atwood is a renowned Canadian poet, novelist, playwright, and critic, born on November 18, 1939. Her works are known for their unique style and profound insights into social issues, with notable titles including 'The Handmaid's Tale' and 'Cat's Eye'. more

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