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“Sick and twisted." "Sick and twisted and very, very sad." "I've never seen you like this." "I want Billowy too. And the espadrilles. And the sunglasses. And you.”

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Call Me by Your Name

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André Aciman

André Aciman, born on January 2, 1951, is a renowned writer known for his profound psychological insights and unique narrative style. His works, such as 'The Museum of Unconditional Love,' are celebrated for their emotional depth and distinctive storytelling. more

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