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“the way that memory gets after someone has died and starts walking”

Quote by Victoria Chang

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Victoria Chang, born in 1970, is an accomplished American poet known for her unique style and profound emotional expression. Her poetry explores themes of family, identity, memory, and culture, blending personal experiences with a wide cultural background. more

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