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“Wo du dich komplett verändert hast kümmert dich sicher nicht mehr, wie dich andere sehen. Du ziehst keine Vergleiche mehr zu anderen, bist nicht mehr eifersüchtig und musst nicht mehr prahlen. Bist du glücklich?”

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Book:Land of the Lustrous, Vol. 1
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