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“Pero que las mujeres vivan con miedo a envejecer, y utilicen trucos caros y dolorosos para ocultarselo al mundo no dice nada bueno de nosotros como seres humanos. hace, que parezca como si unos tipos nos hubieran creado para que lo hiciéramos. Hace que parezcamos unas perdedoras. Hace que parezcamos cobardes, y eso es lo último que somos.”

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Cómo ser mujer

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Caitlin Moran
Caitlin Moran

Caitlin Moran is a British columnist, journalist, and television personality known for her humorous and candid writing style. She focuses primarily on women, gender, and pop culture. Born on April 5, 1975, Moran's works include 'How to Be a Woman' and 'Bad Feminist', which have both received widespread attention and acclaim. more

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