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“In reading a recent novel, I myself was convicted by a comment the mother makes to her adult daughter: ‘My dear, you’ve missed so many opportunities to say nothing.’ We do miss these opportunities, as well as opportunities to say less and say it more judiciously. And so we miss particular delights of finding words and speaking them into silences big enough to allow them to be heard.”

Quote by Marilyn Chandler McEntyre

Book:Caring for Words in a Culture of Lies
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Caring for Words in a Culture of Lies

This book delves into the significance of language and its role in shaping truth and understanding within a culture that often prioritizes deceit and misinformation. more

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Marilyn Chandler McEntyre
Marilyn Chandler McEntyre

Marilyn Chandler McEntyre is an American author born in 1949. Her works span various genres, including literary criticism, poetry, and prose. McEntyre is known for her profound literary insights and elegant prose. more

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