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“PRAYER FOR A RECOVERING CODEPENDENT What is missing from your constitution right now, my darling, is not empathy, but courage. It takes fortitude not to leap into somebody else’s suffering with them and call that love. It takes faith to know that you are not the appointed arbiter of anyone else’s journey. And it takes humility to admit that you cannot control anyone— that you might not even understand what you’re looking at. What you call a “crisis” might be someone else’s awakening, ten thousand lifetimes in the making. (The awakening, my love, might even be your own.) And what you call “care” might be dangerous disruption of an ecosystem of unimaginable delicacy. How hard that person’s soul might have fought its way through the cosmos for millions of ages to finally arrive here—on the final precipice of egoic collapse. How close they might be, at last, to freedom. All they have to do now is shatter. Maybe stand back. Maybe let it happen.” — Elizabeth Gilbert