“Adolescents' immature thinking makes it difficult for them to process the divorce. They tend to see things in black-and-white terms and have trouble putting events into perspective. They are absolute in their judgments and expect perfection in parents. They are likely to be self-conscious about their parent's failures and critical of their every move. They have the expectations that parents will keep them safe and happy and are shocked by the broken covenant. Adolescents are unforgiving.” ThinkingSelfMovingProcessParentDifficultBlackTermWhiteTroubleEventsBrokenPerspectiveSafeJudgmentExpectationsConsciousPerfectionAbsolutesDivorceCriticalBlack And WhiteShockedSelf ConsciousCovenantImmatureUnforgiving Book:Reviving Ophelia Source: Reviving Ophelia
“Many minds that have withstood the most severe trials have been broken down by a succession of ignoble cares.” MindHas BeensCareTroubleBrokenTrialsSevereSuccessionBroken DownIgnoble Author:Marguerite Gardiner, Countess of Blessington
“The great thing about fiction is that I don't have to settle on an answer to any troubling question, or even a solution. I hope that my stories serve as explorations and help show readers how and why real-life women don't always make the "correct" decisions in the face of economic and sexual troubles. We all screw up, but the women I write about don't have back-up plans or money in the back or resources to fix what they have broken.” WritingHelpingDecisionTroubleEconomicBrokenSolutionsGreat ThingsSettlingExploration Author:Bonnie Jo Campbell
“I get anxious but worry doesn't really do any good. If something is broken or in trouble, you've got to bend down, pick it up and fix it. Worry just makes us get wrinkles. So try not worrying.” TryingWorryTroubleBrokenAnxiousNot Worrying Author:Gavin Friday
“somehow we have overlooked the fact this treasured called the heart can also be broken, has been broken, and now lies in pieces down under the surface. When it comes to habits we cannot quit or patterns we cannot stop, anger that flies out of nowhere, fears we cannot overcome, or weaknesses we hate to admit--much of what troubles us comes out of the broken places in our hearts crying out for relief. Jesus speaks as if we are all brokenhearted. We would do well to trust His perspective on this.” IfsWellsHeartHas BeensFactsLyingHateJesusSpeakPiecesTroubleCryBrokenPerspectiveHabitWeaknessOvercomingPatternsSurfaceQuittingReliefOverlookedTreasuredBrokenhearted Author:John Eldredge
“The peace of Manderley. The quietude and the grace. Whoever lived within its walls, whatever trouble there was and strife, however much uneasiness and pain, no matter what tears were shed, what sorrows borne, the peace of Manderley could not be broken or the loveliness destroyed.” MatterPainGraceTroubleTearsBrokenWallSorrowNo Matter WhatDestroyedShedStrifeLovelinessUneasiness Book:Daphne du Maurier Omnibus 4: Rebecca; My Cousin Rachel Source: Daphne du Maurier Omnibus 4: Rebecca; My Cousin Rachel