“The real goal of Zen is to find a way of life that's easy and undramatic. Strong attachments lead to upset and drama.” WayRealStrongEasyGoalDramaUpsetAttachment Book:Sex, Sin, and Zen: Buddhist Exploration of Sex from Celibacy to Polyamory and Everything in Between Source: Sex, Sin, and Zen: Buddhist Exploration of Sex from Celibacy to Polyamory and Everything in Between