“But it’s not consolation she wants. On the contrary, she is looking for precise words, forgotten facts - or maybe new ones - that will inflame her pain and grief over he big sister, whose death had claimed a portion of her own youth. Yes, she has a clear desire to breathe life into her loss and crack open the crust of forgetfulness that has begun to envelop her.” LossGriefMemory Book:Friendly Fire Source: Friendly Fire