“Social media in particular shapes reality into something that feels competitive, because not only do we work to present the most idealized version of ourselves (or at least a specific version) we then opt in to real-time judgment: A system of likes and comments that purports to confirm or deny our “content’s” inherent worth in a way that we all understand is negative and even harmful, but also doesn’t stop us from paying attention.” SelfCompetitionSocial Media Book:You Are Here (For Now): A Guide to Finding Your Way Source: You Are Here (For Now): A Guide to Finding Your Way