“Blaming yourself makes you feel in control of a situation. It makes you feel safe. If it’s Eton’s fault for this, then your brain tells you that he has the power. That’s scary. If he has the power, he could do it again, and it’s out of your control. So your brain twists things so you don’t feel so vulnerable. If you did this, then you could’ve stopped it. You can control whether it happens again. But you know that’s not true.” WisdomIntelligenceInsightfulEmotional IntelligencePsychoanalysisUnderstanding YourselfTruth Of The MatterCarmichael FamilyAdriana Locke Book:Fling Source: Fling