“Do I need someone to be of use to, in order to justify my existence? she wonders. Do I need someone to desire me, in order to feel alive? Do men ever think like this?” Women Book:Say My Name Source: Say My Name
“She feels the boundaries of her self expand, filling the space around her, leaving no lack, no gap where a man should be.” Women Book:Say My Name Source: Say My Name
“Recently she has begun to think, with the dispassion of a scientist observing a specimen, that she no longer knows what joy feels like— that sense of soaring delight in being alive that is more than mere happiness, which she came to define as merely the absence of sadness, so that she could occasionally claim it and keep her life on its tracks. If she had been asked, she would have said she was content, but now she recognizes that featureless condition for what it is: all sensation blurred into the same narcotic fog.” Joy Book:Say My Name Source: Say My Name
“The most important thing in convoluted families, I learnt as I wrote, is that the child feels loved. I knew from a young age that I was a problem which required constant solving; but I never felt unloved. I was lucky.” FeelsChildrenImportantProblemAgeYoungFeltLuckyImportant ThingsConstantYoung AgeUnlovedConvoluted Author:Allegra Huston
“When I was 12 and met my real father for the first time, I was terrified I would lose the one I already had.” FirstsRealFatherLosesMetsFirst TimeTerrifiedReal Father Author:Allegra Huston
“I loved Dad more for treating the biological reality as trivial, irrelevant. He loved me no less than his other three children.” ChildrenRealityThreeDadIrrelevant Author:Allegra Huston
“Be a big person; be generous of spirit; be the person you'd admire.” PersonsBigsSpiritAdmireGenerousDwell On The Past Author:Allegra Huston
“I was not a Southern California girl. I hated having my photograph taken. I felt shy and embarrassed around famous people.” PeopleGirlFeltTakenPhotographHatedCaliforniaShySouthernEmbarrassedSouthern CaliforniaCalifornia Girls Author:Allegra Huston
“Don't waste time on what's not important. Don't get sucked into the drama. Get on with it: don't dwell on the past. Be a big person; be generous of spirit; be the person you'd admire.” PersonsImportantBigsPastSpiritDramaWasteAdmireGenerousWasting TimeDon't Waste TimeDwell On The Past Author:Allegra Huston