“Learning about sex was a little bit like learning grammar. Every teacher you had assumed some other teacher taught you the year before, or the year before that, as if none of them wanted to talk about it, as if grammar was a bunch of dirty words. A massive silence surrounded dangling participles and infinite clauses, and you learned to fear making mistakes you didn't know how to avoid.” Sex Book:Spoken in Darkness: Small-Town Murder and a Friendship Beyond Death Source: Spoken in Darkness: Small-Town Murder and a Friendship Beyond Death