“I am startled by how resistant people are to doing anything nice or nurturing for themselves, especially women. They fear being selfish. This intense clinging to a martyr role doesn’t serve anyone. It makes you brittle, not resilient.” MartyrSelf Nurturing Book:How to Manifest Your SoulMate with EFT: Relationship as a Spiritual Path Source: How to Manifest Your SoulMate with EFT: Relationship as a Spiritual Path