“From beginning to end this is a wet and blood smeared voyage, this begetting and birthing and moving away.” EndsMovingBloodBirthWetVoyagesMoving AwayBirthing Book:Playing after dark Source: Playing after dark
“The hot, moist smell of babies fresh from naps.” BabyHotSmellNaps Book:Playing after dark Source: Playing after dark
“Siblings may be ambivalent about their relationships in life, but in death the power of their bond strangles the surviving heart. Death reminds us that we are part of the same river, the same flow from the same source, rushing towards the same destiny. Were you close? Yes, but we didn't know it then.” KnowsHeartMayDestinySourceFlowRiversGrievingSurvivingSiblingRushingAmbivalent Author:Barbara Ascher
“Discover that we are capable of solitary joy and having experienced it, know that we have touched the core of self.” KnowsSelfJoyCapableCoreTouchedSolitary Book:Playing after dark Source: Playing after dark
“Grief is like the wind. When it's blowing hard, you adjust your sails and run before it. If it blows too hard, you stay in the harbor, close the hatches and don't take calls. When it's gentle, you go sailing, have a picnic, take a swim.” IfsHardRunningGriefWindBlowGentleSwimSailSailingHarborsPicnics Author:Barbara Ascher
“A red brick Presbyterian church... captured by kudzu vines as surely as a butterfly in a net.” ChurchRedButterflyBricksCapturedVinesPresbyterians Author:Barbara Ascher