“It is amazing how women spend too much time and energy scheming, plotting and seducing men when they should spend more time listening, learning and getting over desperation.” HealingDesperateBroken HeartDesperationSeductiveWomen S StrengthWoman Scorned Book:11.11.11 After so Many Years of Tears: Letters to My Distant Soul-Mate Source: 11.11.11 After so Many Years of Tears: Letters to My Distant Soul-Mate