“When we are dealt a difficult hand of cards and find ourselves hitting a wall after having tried every tool in the tool chest, sometimes all we can do is sit in the pain and surrender. It’s in the surrender that we may just meet a peace that transcends our understanding.” PainPeaceToolsDifficultySurrender Book:Hope For Secondhand Suffering: Tools For The Heart When You Can't Fix Your Loved One's Pain Source: Hope For Secondhand Suffering: Tools For The Heart When You Can't Fix Your Loved One's Pain