“We don’t exist in and for ourselves but only in as much as we are re-created in the imagination of another person— by entering that person’s life as fully as possible. I mean, entering it imaginatively, intellectually, physically and emotionally with all the conflicts that that makes inevitable.” Passion Book:The Unburied Source: The Unburied
“When you love, you entrust to that person your sense of your own worth, and if that person throws you aside, you believe profoundly and utterly that it is because you are worthless. That is a kind of death.” Self Esteem Book:The Unburied Source: The Unburied
“We only value ourselves as others value us, for it might be said that we hold ourselves in trust for others.” Self Esteem Book:The Unburied Source: The Unburied
“There are people who invite betrayal. They are demanding towards themselves and don't realize how hard they are on other people. They make it difficult for others not to fail them. And in some cases they even take a grim pleasure from being let down.” PsychologyBetrayal Book:The Unburied Source: The Unburied
“Victorian values meant brutalizing people who were often poor.” PeopleValuesPoorVictorian Author:Charles Palliser
“I think every first-person narrator in a novel should be compromised. I prefer that word to unreliable.” ThinkingShouldFirstsPersonsNovelFirst PersonUnreliableNarrators Author:Charles Palliser
“To exist is to be betrayed, since we exist for others only by virtue of what we betray of ourselves to them.” VirtueBetrayBetrayed Book:Betrayals Source: Betrayals