“When kids made a decision for themselves they have a vested interest in showing they were right. Lee wanted to prove to me that he had made the right choice so he worked hard and did well. If we'd forced him to go to college somewhere else all the incentives would've been different. Then he would have had a motive to prove that we were wrong.” ChildrenMotherhoodDecision MakingFatherhood Book:From This Day Forward: A Wise and Endearing Memoir on Marriage, Family, and Faith Source: From This Day Forward: A Wise and Endearing Memoir on Marriage, Family, and Faith